The first thing to remember is
that your partner is NOT a porn star so open crotch knickers or open
cup bras are out especially for Xmas, Valentine or Birthday
presents. Glamour lingerie is great as a little something to spice
things up in the bedroom but not for special occasions.
Keep it simple, that’s the best advice. Women don’t really like
lingerie that’s very, very lacy or that’s bright red or has dangly
bits all over it. Women like quality designs that are comfortable,
sexy and seductive, so stick with satins, silks or just simple
comfortable fabrics that look fantastic. |

Bright reds are out for Special
occasions |
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A nice set! |
Women also love matching sets. Our
own survey says that most women don’t own a matching bra &
thong/brief set so buying a set makes the items a little bit more
special.
Go for seductive colours rather than sexy ones. If in doubt on the
colour go for pastels, white, nude, black or patterns that feature
these colours. You can’t go wrong with these as they appeal to
pretty much everyone. |
Briefs, thongs or
strings???
Find out what your partner likes the most. What does she wear the
most?
Briefs are comfortable and cover the bum cheeks, thongs don’t cover
the bum but do have a band around the waist. Strings tend to be like
thongs but with even less material! Find out what your partner wears
a lot and stick to these. Another suggestion is Shorts, they are a
bit like boxer shorts for women but sexier and they are very
comfortable. |

Shortys are becoming popular |
Sizing
Bras are measured in chest size and cup size. The chest size is the
measurement around the chest just under the boobs and the cup size is
the measurement around the fullness of the boobs. Sizing bras can get
quite complicated but the size should look something like this.
36C
This means that the under
the bust measurement is 36 inches and the cup size is C. The bigger the
boobs the bigger the cup size.
The best way to find your partners bra size is to go routing through her
underwear draw. Look for her favourite and most comfortable bra, check
the label for the size and make a note of it. Also check her knicker
size as well, these usually work on a small, medium, large scale.
IMPORTANT: If your partner catches you mooching though her underwear
draw come clean and tell her what your doing. If you make up an excuse
she may think you are a bit of a perv and like looking through her
knickers when she’s not around!!!
Styles
There are so many different styles of lingerie around nowadays that
sometimes I get confused. Just remember that you don’t have to stick
with bra & knickers. You can also look at
bustiers,
camisoles,
corsets and
baby dolls.
Take a look at our
bra styles
page for descriptions on what the different styles mean. |

Camisole |
Personal Shopper
If you need help choosing lingerie for your partner then we can help
you. We run a free
personal
shopper service and we will personally choose some items for you to
look at. All you have to do is find the sizes and enter the amount you
want to spend and give us an idea on colours and styles your thinking
about. Also tell us what you’re buying the lingerie for, birthday, Xmas
etc. We’ll help you out.
Give us as much info as you can and we’ll help you out.
Advice Forums
If you want to chat to ladies who can help advise you on what to buy for
your partner then join our forums. We have a
Bra
Advice & Help section where you can ask questions and get some
advice from other men and women. |